ATTN 11/30/24
I am on winter hiatus until 2/14/25, and I will not be conducting client sessions during this time. Please visit my contact page to get notified when slots are open, or check out more information about my upcoming somatic retreat for polyamorous folks taking place in Greece in March 2025. |
One-on-one support can set you on the right track to creating a healthy, happy, sexy, and exciting love life whether you are single, married, new to non-monogamy, a practiced polyamorist, recovering from a breakup or divorce, or anywhere in-between. I am the person who keeps you accountable, answers questions you may have about best relationship practices, encourages you to stick to your goals and follow through, and I can be a listening ear when frustration, failure, and conflict arise.
I can help with a multitude of topics, including:
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Dedeker is both pragmatic and sincere in her coaching services. She is a great listener and will make you feel heard, and you'll walk away afterwards with things to think about and a solid game plan. I went into her coaching confused and unsure of myself, and I left feeling empowered in my decisions and with the knowledge that nobody is ever alone in their struggles.
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Dedeker has an instinctual way of making you feel important by asking intelligent and relevant questions that open your mind to greater possibilities and set you on the path to reaching your mental health and/or relationship goals. Her empathy and openness for clients of color, clients from the LGBTQ+ community, and clients with nontraditional relationship styles made us a perfect fit.
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My ApproachOutside of my years of personal experience in non-monogamous relationships, I am a Somatic Experiencing® Practitioner (SEP). I also bring my training and background in Gottman Method Couples therapy, mindfulness meditation, and my coaching credentials certified by the non-profit International Coach Federation. You can see the full list of my education and credentials on the About page. I approach each session with the intention of empowering you with the knowledge and skills necessary to understand your situation, to uncover the actionable steps you can take to reach a solution and to craft the relationships that you want to have. I strive to create a supportive space where your thoughts and feelings can be heard, and where you can learn more about yourself through self-inquiry, mindfulness, and custom-tailored exercises. I work with clients from all walks of life, but I most frequently work with people who are interested, involved in, or identify with:
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RatesIndividual Session - 50 Minutes
Sliding Scale 130 - 230 Supporter Rate: 230 Regular Rate: 180 Reduced Rate: 130 Couple Session - 75 Minutes
Sliding Scale 230 - 330 Supporter Rate: 330 Regular Rate: 280 Reduced Rate: 230 3 Person Session - 90 Minutes
Sliding Scale 330 - 430 Supporter Rate: 430 Regular Rate: 380 Reduced Rate: 330 |
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I have been in some form of traditional therapy on and off for the last 25 years, and I made the most progress on my relationships and personal challenges with Dedeker's help. I could not recommend her coaching enough.
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I find that Dedeker's coaching was more helpful to me than other types of counselling because it allowed me to focus specifically on my relationships with someone who understands both traditional and non-traditional relationship models.
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Let's get started
Please read the sliding scale guidelines and fill out my booking form below. If my schedule indicates that there are no available sessions, that means that all of my slots are full for the next two weeks. If there are open slots in my calendar, they will become available on a 14-day rolling basis, so please check back periodically for slots to open up. In the meantime, I highly recommend setting yourself up for success with research and evidence-based practices in my self-paced course, Building a Solid Foundation for Non-Monogamy.
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