One-on-one coaching can set you on the right track to creating a healthy, happy, sexy, and exciting love life whether you are single, married, new to non-monogamy, a practiced polyamorist, recovering from a breakup or divorce, or anywhere in-between.  As your coach, I am the person who keeps you accountable, answers questions you may have about polyamory, encourages you to stick to your goals and follow through, and I can be a listening ear when frustration, failure, and conflict arise.  
I can help with a multitude of topics, including:
  • Finding like-minded partners to date 
  • Bringing up non-monogamy to your partner
  • Managing multiple relationships and multiple partner's needs for emotional support, time, and attention 
  • Exploring group sex, threesomes, and other sexual adventures
  • Transitioning from monogamy into polyamory
  • Developing healthy and conscious monogamous relationships 
  • Finding what particular flavor of non-traditional relationship is right for you
  • Coming out to family and friends
  • Tools for effective communication and active listening
  • Gaining deep self-awareness and discovering what makes you tick when it comes to love and sex 
  • Crafting a vision for your ideal romantic life 
  • Healing from breakup, divorce, infidelity, or other relationship transitions 
  • And much more.

My Approach

Outside of my years of personal experience in non-monogamous relationships, I bring my training and background in mindfulness meditation, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), and my coaching education and credentials from World Coach Institute, certified by the non-profit International Coach Federation. I approach each session with the intention of empowering you with the knowledge and skills necessary to understand your situation, to uncover the actionable steps you can take to reach a solution, and to craft the relationships that you want to have. I strive to create a safe space where your thoughts and feelings can be heard, and where you can learn more about yourself through self-inquiry, mindfulness, and custom-tailored exercises.

I work with clients from all walks of life, but I most frequently work with people who are interested or involved in:
  • polyamory (hierarchal and non-hierarchal)
  • open relationships and open marriages
  • polyfidelitous relationships
  • opening up closed relationships
  • developing conscious monogamous relationships​
  • members of the LGBTQ community
  • asexuality/demisexuality/aromantic/demiromantic
  • BDSM and kinksters 
  • relationship anarchists
  • people of any gender identity and sexual orientation 

What to Expect

Each coaching session includes:
  • One audio or video call (50-minute and 75-minute sessions available)
  • Support between sessions via email 
  • Personalized recommendations for information and resources
If you have a single burning question, I am happy to do one-off sessions, but most of my clients choose to have ongoing sessions once per week or once every two weeks. 

Pricing

Individuals
50-Minute Session: $109
75-Minute Session: $164
Couples
75-Minute Session: $219
Triads and More
Please email me at dedeker@multiamory.com or by using the contact form below.
Reduced rates are available for those in financial need. 

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